Rant on!

Here is the latest question for everybody, and I want honest answers....

Why is that people who are fuck ups, who 1) screw up their lives with drugs, 2) screw up their lives by getting into horrible relationships, 3) screw up their lives by financiall ruining themselves, and 4) all of the above are always taken care of by other people, praised for their daily "achievments", are consoled for their idiocy, and just generally loved to death. However, people that do not 1) screw up their lives with drugs, 2) screw up their lives by getting into horrible relationships, 3) screw up their lives by financially ruining themselves, and 4) all of the above are generally ignored, criticized, taken advantage of by the previous mentioned people, family, and friends? I was wondering why those of us who strive to take care of ourselves, help out other people, try to make other people happy, and just generally try to make the world a little bit better are not considered important enough for others to worry about their happiness? Just a little something to think about. What I also wonder is what would happen if those people that are always trying to make everybody else happy, regardless of their own happiness, would all fall off the face of the earth one day? Where would that leave the others?